Get lots of rest in the afternoon before the social. It's going to be a long night. Dress in a sports coat and tie or a business suit. Casual Fridays have not caught on in Russia yet.
Bring pictures of yourself, your family, and photos that show your lifestyle, your home, and the area where you live. The women will love them and they will provide icebreakers in the conversation. They will also feel more comfortable with you.
Have a list of questions that you want to ask them. Don't be afraid to be direct and to the point. You have minutes, not weeks, to get to know them. Bring a pen and small notebook to write down the names and phone numbers of the women you want to pursue after the social.
Yes, you want to be intuitive. Do you like the way she looks and carries herself? Do you feel comfortable with her? Is she interesting? Do you feel like you want to spend more time with her? Does she feel genuine? Does she seem attracted to you?
If you see the oversexed bombshell that you can't wait to meet, and she is not on your profile list, go say hello if you are compelled. You don't have to stay entirely with your profile list.
But you should at least try to meet the women on your profile list before you start talking to women at random. That will at least ensure that you have met some women you have a commonality with before you begin charming the disco queens, roller girls, university students, and lingerie models.
Say hello to everyone. Have fun. Just don't forget why you are at the social.
Talk to each woman briefly. Get to know her. Look for some kind of personal connection between the two of you. Is she an interesting conversationalist? Does she have interesting hobbies or other characteristics that attract you? Would you like to spend more time with her? Would you like to get to know her better?
If so, make a note of her badge number and her name. You can arrange to meet her later after the social when you can spend more time with her.
A couple of tips on how to get an edge at the social. Find the owners of the local marriage agencies, or their representatives, that are at the social. They are usually mature men or women. They usually speak English fairly well. They are frequently surrounded by women from their agency that are accompanying them.
Ask Knowledgable Russian Women In Attendance For Recommendations.
Talk to them. Tell them a little about yourself. Who you are and what your are looking for. They know the women in their agency better than anyone and may be able to steer you to a woman in their agency who fits that description. Also, many of the tour companies have interpreters at the socials. If the interpreters or tour personnel have been with the tour company for a while or if they have been to socials from different companies, they may be familiar with some of the women that are attending.
Again, you can ask them who might fit your description of the women they know. Some of them may be reluctant to give that information, but you can always ask.
Bear in mind, many of the women attending the socials have been to more than one social from more than one tour company. Many of them have more experience at the socials than you do.
If you meet a woman that you are attracted to, you can talk to the tour personnel and ask them candidly if they know any reason why you would not want to get involved with her.
Listen carefully to their answers as people have their own presonal reasons for liking or disliking others. Sometimes they can be jealous or have a personality conflict with another woman. So take their comments in stride, but use all the resources available to you, including the other men in the tour.
Get their opinions of the women you are meeting. Listen to them. Evaluate their comments with your own judgement.
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